Searching for a new chapter: How to navigate the unknown path of the future?
Problem: I have no idea what the next step in my life will be.
Searching for a new chapter: How to navigate the unknown path of the future?
Eva Smith, 32, graphic designer, Barcelona, Spain
Hi, I'm Eva. I've been working as a graphic designer for about five years. I've been pretty successful the last few years, but now I feel a kind of emptiness. Sometimes I wonder if I really want to do this? One day I feel like I need to start something new, go somewhere else and use my skills, but other times I feel like everything is going well, so why take another risk?
I can't figure out what the next big step in life will be. Sometimes I lose motivation in the middle of work, but then I feel like, if I give it a little time, everything will be fine. Sometimes I feel like, can't I move forward better towards the future?
But one question keeps haunting me: Do I do something that truly brings me joy, or will I just stay in one place?
Askly Help's compassionate solution
Dear Eva,
Your question touches the hearts of many, and is truly an invaluable part of life. The anxiety you are experiencing is perfectly normal—it is actually a moment when we try to learn more about ourselves.
1. Different stages of life's journey
The emptiness you are feeling is a sign of preparation for a new challenge. When a person comes across a chapter, then in that situation there are two paths before him - one is to return to the old path, and the other is to move forward on a new path. What you are doing is right, because you are valuing your feelings.
2. Ask yourself: What do you want?
There comes a time when you should really be fair to yourself. Ask yourself this question: Do you see your life differently? Do you want to do something that will truly satisfy you? And if so, why not?
If you want to stay in graphic design, you can look at it from a new perspective. Maybe you can fulfill your passion through some new projects, or freelancing. Again, if you feel like you can use your talents in something else, consider opening up a new direction.
3. Change is a process
Change is not like climbing a ladder, it is a huge, steep climb over time. You have to take small steps forward. Whatever path you take, give yourself time before taking big steps.
Slowly introduce yourself to an environment where you feel like this is your normal life. It will be something new, but once it becomes a part of your life, you will find yourself more content.
4. Enjoy the journey, not just the destination
The more you focus on the destination, the more important the journey becomes. If you only think about the 'next step', the middle path becomes much less important to you. But every moment in life, every decision—they create an experience, a feeling in themselves.
A fulfilling life should be lived in a way where you love not only the future, but also the present.
5. Overcoming fear
Fear is our biggest enemy, especially when we think about starting something new. Maybe you're stuck in fear of what if things don't go well? But remember, any change involves a little bit of risk. Don't be afraid, but rather, you will find yourself through this fear.
6. Be honest with your wants and needs.
No matter how easy it is, sometimes it's hard to go against your will in life. Even if you want to be in a very safe place, you can find some time within that space to find your true passion. Give yourself that opportunity to do something that makes you feel truly good.
7. Don't rush into any decisions.
I want to remind you that whenever you make a decision, it's not a one-day job. When you take the next step in your life, it will take time. So set some small goals today that will keep you on track.
Last words: Let's move forward on the right path in life.
Eva, I know you are walking an unknown path right now, but the path you take will teach you a lot and you will be confident. No change is ever easy, but when that change becomes a part of life, you will feel—it was the right decision for you.
Best wishes,
Askly Help