Problems and Solutions: Humane and Emotional Advice

 

Problems and Solutions: Humane and Emotional Advice

First person:

• Name: Emily Watson

• Occupation: School teacher

• Country and city: Toronto, Canada

Problem:

I'm Emily, a 32-year-old school teacher. I've loved teaching since I was a child. But now I feel like I'm fighting an invisible wall every day.

My students are not paying attention as much as they used to, they have lost patience, many are addicted to mobile phones and social media. I try to make the class enjoyable, but sometimes it seems like they are not interested anymore.

In addition, parents also put a lot of pressure on us—they just want their children to get good grades, but it doesn't matter what they're learning or how they're doing mentally.

I'm feeling really frustrated. How can I maintain my love for teaching and become a more effective teacher for my students?

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Askly Help's advice:

A teacher's struggle: A new ray of hope

Dear Emily,
your feelings are completely normal. Teaching today faces many challenges, especially due to technology addiction and academic pressure. However, you are not alone—thousands of teachers around the world are facing the same problems. And most importantly, you are still trying, which proves that you are a truly dedicated teacher.

1. Grab students' attention, but in a new way

Today's students are growing up with technology. So the old teaching methods may not be interesting to them. Try to make the class more interactive. Maybe using gamification, videos, debates, or real-life examples will make them more interested.

2. Make technology your friend, not your enemy.

It may not be practical to ban mobile phones or social media, but you can use them as teaching tools. Educational apps, interactive online quizzes, or educational videos can help keep their attention.

3. Manage parental expectations

You may not be able to completely change your parents' expectations, but you can have open discussions with them. Try to hold regular parent-teacher conferences where you can discuss not only grades, but also students' mental health, interest in learning, and creativity.

4. Be kind to yourself.

Disappointment may come, but remember—every effort you make is worth it. You may not realize it, but you are making a positive difference in the lives of some student. They may grow up and one day realize what a great teacher you were.

5. Diversify teaching methods

Not all students learn in the same way. Some are visual learners, some learn better through hands-on activities, and some learn through stories. Understanding their learning style will help them engage more.

6. Give yourself time, rejuvenate.

Taking care of yourself is very important. To relieve stress, occasionally do something outside of teaching that brings you joy—read a book, go on a trip, or learn a new skill.

Last words

Emily, your work is invaluable. You are in a profession where you can truly make a difference in someone's life. You may not realize it every day, but some of your students in the future will remember you with gratitude one day.

So, don't get discouraged. Find new strategies, be patient, and remember—a good teacher doesn't just impart knowledge, but also inspires.

Good luck to you! ❤️