I am very disappointed. Nothing is going right in my life.
Rahul, a young man, India
Problem:
"Brother, I am very frustrated. Nothing is going right in my life. I am trying so hard for work, but I am not getting any results. I cannot explain to my family why nothing is going right even though I want to do so much. Sometimes I feel like I cannot do anything well. Can you give me any advice?"
Dear Rahul,
I really understand your situation. There are times in life when it feels like everything is out of our hands and we are stuck. But remember, life is never linear. When we feel like nothing is happening, it is actually the strangest path of life that gives us the strength to grow.
First of all, your feelings of disappointment are completely normal. Everyone goes through times in their life when they feel like their efforts are in vain. But the most important thing at that time is not to give up. We will face many obstacles in our lives, but the value of the efforts you make is never less. Sometimes, even if the path we are taking does not seem right, we are learning something new along the way.
Your family may also be worried about your worries, but talking openly to them can make things a lot easier. If you tell them how you are trying, they will be able to understand you better and be more supportive. Sometimes, what they try to explain to us is only from their perspective. But when you open up to them, you will also get their help.
Also, take a break from your efforts and focus on work. Take some time for yourself, try to keep your mind calm. If your work flow is continuous, sometimes fatigue puts more pressure on us. Create some small goals one by one. This way, the work pressure will reduce a lot and you will regain your energy.
When something is lost in life, we can start anew. Your confidence is only within you. Everything you are doing is right, if you become stronger and value the small moments of life, you will see that you can learn a lot from where you stand and change your life.
Finally, remember, you are not alone. Every person goes through some period in life where they are in some kind of crisis or depression. But it is very important to believe in yourself during this time. Everything will get better with time. Believe in yourself, and you will definitely succeed.
Best wishes,
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