Losing the purpose of life
Problem and Solution: Losing Purpose in Life
Name: Lucy Morris
Occupation: Graphic Designer
Country and city: Toronto, Canada
Name: Lucy Morris
Occupation: Graphic Designer
Country and city: Toronto, Canada
Problem:
I'm Lucy, 29 years old. I work as a graphic designer for an advertising agency in Toronto. When I was a kid, I thought I would do something amazing when I grow up—make my mark on the world. But now I just have to work from morning to night, following the instructions of a client.
Every day, somehow, everything seems to be stuck in an invisible cycle. Sometimes it feels like I'm just living—as if life has forgotten the difference between 'surviving' and 'living'.
I sometimes wonder, "Is this what life is all about? Have I taken a wrong path?"
Advice from Askly Help:
How to find yourself when you've lost your purpose in life
Dear Lucy,
after reading your writing, my heart sighs. Because you have spoken about a feeling that millions of people feel every day—but do not have the courage to say openly. So first of all, I would like to thank you for this courage.
1. Losing purpose is part of life.
Life is not always linear. Sometimes the purpose is crystal clear, and sometimes it is shrouded in fog. That is normal. The fact that you are experiencing it is proof that you are alive—that you can feel, that you think.
2. Awaken your heart in small moments.
We often think that the meaning of life is to do great things—but sometimes life finds meaning in the smell of a cup of coffee, a moment of laughter with an old friend, or a sketch of yourself.
You are a graphic designer. Creativity is part of your being. Create something for yourself—not for a client, just for yourself.
3. When you're looking for purpose, sometimes you have to stop and stand.
Even in this boring, monotonous routine, if you spend even 15-20 minutes a day on your own, where you can write, draw, or just sit quietly—it is in those times that the light of purpose can be found.
4. Life can be rebuilt every day.
Lucy, your life as it is now is not final. If you want, you can start a new chapter today. Learning new things, visiting new places, meeting new people—all of these will give you a new taste of life.
5. You don't always have to do something extraordinary, just something genuine.
Many people mistakenly think that success in life means achieving something big. However, a little love, a drop of affection, bringing a smile to someone's face - these are the deepest meanings of life.
Last words:
Lucy,
your life story is not over yet. You may be standing still now, but this is the moment—when you can decide what the next chapter will be. You are a strong, sensitive, and creative person.
You will write your own journey—step by step, silently, with love.
No matter how lost you are, it is always possible to return to yourself.
Stay well.
— Askly Help